Do You Know If Your Fiance Is A Scammer?

This is something that you have probably heard a number of times, never send money to your fiance if you have not met her. Meet her many times before trusting her with any of your personal information or money.

Thinking of marrying someone from another country? Then keep in mind she will need to see your entire life, including bank accounts, tax returns etc. She will need to carry and present these kinds of documents to the embassy officer during her interview. So dont expose your life until you are one hundred percent sure about her.

I have heard a lot of stories of people trusting too much when it comes to dating overseas. Currently there are over 1000 black listed women from just Russian and former Soviet Republics.

What does Blacklisted Russian Women or Blacklisted Ukrainian Women mean? It means a woman from a country other than the USA has been reported as scamming men for money or American Visas.

What are the signs of a scammer?

A scammer will have an immediate attraction to you. She will often immediately start using words like, I love you or lead you to believe she is ready to marry you. Women that do this are great at making you feel like you are the only man for them. Yet in reality they are speaking to others.

The more men they can talk to at one time the more potential for making a lot of money.

Now I am sure that the woman you are talking to is beautiful beyond measure. Yet, ask yourself this question. If you were to meet someone from your hometown and she would immediately start to tell you that she loved you, would you feel so comfortable? Most will answer no to this question. It gives you the feeling that something is wrong. So if that is the case, then why trust someone you never met telling the same things? These words should immediately raise the red flag. If you have not met, you have no idea of her intentions.

If the girl wants to come visit you in the USA and requests help, that is a major red flag. Everyone that lives in Russia or the old Soviet Republics knows it is not possible to come to the USA as a visitor. All she wants is for you to send her the money to pay for a visa that does not exist. She gets the money and you get scammed. If you arent sure, pick up the phone and call the USCIS 1-800-375-5283.

Just for informational value: When I was dating my Ukrainian Fiance, I tried this myself. But this was after I met her five times. I tried to secure a B-2 tourist visa for her. Although I supplied all the necessary documents, she was still denied this visa. Do not waste your time or money on it.

Money talk before meeting is a clear sign that something is not right. She has been fine all this time without your money, why would she need it now? If this happens, it is best to walk away. A very large percentage of these women are scammers. If you would rather continue talking to her, then mention that you would not like to talk about money until you meet her. Most of the time the girl will go away on her own if she realizes you are not easy prey.

Keep in mind that the girl in the picture is not really her. Most of the time, the picture is of an actress or model. Sometimes that person behind the picture can be a guy.

Time for these scammers is limited. They need to get as much money as possible out of you before they are caught.

What happens after you send them money? They completely disappear. You never hear from them and you will never see your money again. No one will investigate your claims and no one will care. The typical method of sending money is through Western Union. All these scammers know the ins and outs of Western Union.

It is a hard life where these girls come from and corruption is wide spread.

These women are really good at what they do. They will have stories or answers to all your questions. It is their profession and they are almost impossible to catch. They will go out on a limb if it means they have a chance of getting some of your money.

Ok so how do you make sure you are not being scammed? Make sure you meet your fiance more than once. Do not give any personal information out or send money without being sure about the person you are talking to or want to marry. Even though she might be exhibiting some of the traits of a scammer, she might be legitimate. In my next report I will show you how to know for sure if she is real or not.